1. Running around with open trousers – especially with cheap freebee dicks, not nice to view at all.
2. Asking after 1 Minute in chat: give me your picture…. --- is SL not enough to watch for?
3. Leaving after 5 minutes of fun – are you so horny that you don’t know that you have to leave soon, why than starting something?
4. Bad dressed, newbee clothing even you are older than 30 days – Everybody understands that newones need their time, and help will be always there, but dressed in your starter clothes from some age shows only that you are not really interested in anything. Even with some effort you can get some nice freebee clothes. And if that’s to complicated, ask someone for help, or go together shopping.
5. Leaving instant when you have enough fun – ok that’s like in RL with some males also, after they cum, they are not interested any more what the girl feels
6. Ignoring every roleplay – some like it to live in their role, whatever it is, accept it, but don’t destroy it with asking things that don’t match to the situation you know it before if you look at the one, the profile ….
7. asking after 1 Minute in chat: are you female in RL? --- do we invest so much in us to have so less fantasy that every male needs a RL counterpart to have fun, why you are here in SL without any imagination. That’s humiliating for real girls that like to be in SL, and not in the way humiliation makes fun.
8. Completely unromantic – depends a bit on the girl, but everyone (real girls of course) likes an invitation to a dinner, a ballroom, a romantic place, more or less…so when you want to know if someone is RL female that’s a good test by the way….but don’t be so stupid and always look for the quick fun
And my comment to that: She is completly exactly right, thats also a reason that most more sophisticated places die out. Most ladies here are straight, everybody else is aprecciated, and through the lack of males that have a sense of understanding, every place that try to make more than quick sex, gets populated by time through females that are not, and because they are mostly bad, gets than empty.
My reply to your blog (Sorry I couldnt post it because I did not understand the language the controls were in)
ReplyDeleteHmm.. the problems with your piece are numerous. First it should read "Most males that just approach you out of nowhere" See most males are not at all like what you describe, but the ones that are really high value have women vying for their attention already, so they wont just IM every woman in the place. They are cautious and suspicious so they watch you from afar, read your profile, get to know your friends, and slowly begin to get to know you.
A high value guy (good avi, well spoken, funny, not creepy, or clingy) Isnt going to see you someplace and ask you to go dancing (well it may happen in a blue moon if you really catch his eye) He is also more likely to have been taken
On the other hand the low value guys will hit on everything that moves, not want to acept no for an answer, want to move right to intiamacy (because for them what ever girl they do get a hold of wont be around long for the already stated reasons). Women are not lining up for them so they take what they can get
The high value guy doesnt chase much, he has girls asking him. If he isnt careful all of hjis online time can be taken up just trying to keep up with the girls he has as friends. Low value guys have to rely on numbers ask as many women as possible, one is bound to say yes. So it seems there are few good guys, and lots of horny noobs. I think it is more of a bell curve.
But what choice does a girl have really? You just have to pan the gold from the sand, I mean you could go lesbian.. but right! 90 percent of those are male, and they are even lower value then the low value male I cited (and also responsible for much of the things pointed out as annoying to women -if they didnt try to pass themselves off as women men would not feel they need some kind of proof.. although again, that is low value male behavoir. Without asking for pictures (that can be downloaded from anyplace so prove nothing anyway, or voice which can be changed via hardware or software. I know if your a woman There are clues in the way you look at things, your profile, the way you dress. If you have to ask, then you dont know her well enough for whatever it was you were thinking about doing that made it important. So lets not just beat up on the guys... I mean a companion article could be "Why all women in sl are sluts, Or why Most women are Men...
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ReplyDeleteFirst dont see this discussion to strict. SL is a place mostly for having fun, i think. But fun differs from the standpoint and taste.
ReplyDeleteIts good to know that there are different ones, than the ones that are described in the original posting. And i know that there are some, met them by myself :)
And you are also completly right with your comment and thoughts. I think the original thougts that were are the 8 points are valid for a lot of guys not all. And limiting that orignal post i must say, that my property is and was in places where the chance to meet the described type of guys very high, compared to the chance to find a high value guy :)
Life is not easy, why should be a second one be easier.
Some points that should be added i think:
- Its understandable that someone who is new to this world, tries out everything, and even do not behave or look like it maybe desired. Would never have anything against that. We all were newones sometimes.
- The thing with the slutty behaviour, is a difficult one to judge i think. Of course there are a lot of, let me call them gender changed ones, for them its the easiest way to express themself. On the other side even real woman may like to behave like that for several reasons, that could have a cultural background, as it is in some cultures, even western ones a tabu to behave like that. It could be also a reason of humilation to behave slutty. By the way - whatever that means. Also a difficult thing to decide in a global enviroment. But a slut is not always a slut - there are also various differences :)
- And it another reason is maybe also the RL age of someone. I mainly interfere with older ones in RL, as far as i know. And there is a big point from experience of RL Life that is shows also in an enviorment like SL. Its maybe to much expectation to anticipate from a RL 20 one some deep role play in a RP enviorment. Besides i will not say that this is not possible. The human horniness, combined with prude cultural background, will be easier i think result in such a behaviour with young ones as with more live experienced once.
You see all not easy :) And there is always a way to ignore that described 8 points, by muting, banning on your own land or maybe discussion with the one, if you have a lot of time...
I see that very relaxed, what not means that the points are wrong.
Standing at some nice restaurant and eating a hamburger....
ReplyDelete[16:21] XXXX: hi
[16:22] Chrissi (christineeltringham): hiya
[16:22] XXXX: how r u
[16:23] Chrissi (christineeltringham): the burger is yummy
[16:23] XXXX: oh ok
[16:24] XXXX: what r u up to..fuck you
...and than the dick is between your lipps....before the burger is off...
Disclaimer: This complicated discussion was not any talk out of SL...pure imagination....